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I've been thinking a lot about how I'm going to help Facilier.
Part of why he is the way he is, is because he's been marginalized. And while I can't say I've had as much direct experience as he's had with that kind of situation, my mother certainly has. He's made choices that grant him power over others because he's felt powerless himself.
I don't think menial labor is going to be a productive part of any rehabilitation I offer him, but I do want him to take on some form of responsibility in which he has to care for someone or something's well being even in some small degree.
I don't think he understands that loyalty and friendship and love of any kind can make a person inclined to act without expectation. That you can do things for other people without expecting to get something in return. I'm pretty sure these are the core problems, but I'm not sure how to go about addressing them.
Any advice, especially from wardens with a lot of experience, would be super helpful.
Part of why he is the way he is, is because he's been marginalized. And while I can't say I've had as much direct experience as he's had with that kind of situation, my mother certainly has. He's made choices that grant him power over others because he's felt powerless himself.
I don't think menial labor is going to be a productive part of any rehabilitation I offer him, but I do want him to take on some form of responsibility in which he has to care for someone or something's well being even in some small degree.
I don't think he understands that loyalty and friendship and love of any kind can make a person inclined to act without expectation. That you can do things for other people without expecting to get something in return. I'm pretty sure these are the core problems, but I'm not sure how to go about addressing them.
Any advice, especially from wardens with a lot of experience, would be super helpful.
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Date: 2015-02-02 07:13 pm (UTC)Learning for themselves is the key for all the inmates here. The wardens, though, have to provide the tools. But that's my opinion. Hammers can build houses, or be used to smash someone's skull in. I don't know that Facilier would benefit from being able to access his powers just yet. But I like your idea of him helping to heal others. I might speak to the folks in Medical and see if they'll accept him doing volunteer work. It just...if it's too menial, he'll resent it, and to be honest I'm trying to show him people don't automatically equate that kind of work with people of color anymore.
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Date: 2015-02-02 07:34 pm (UTC)He's already skilled in using magic. I don't think he needs to be apprenticed to anyone, and I can't shove off responsibility for him on someone else. I'm his Warden, it's up to me to help him. Unless you mean something else?
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Date: 2015-02-02 07:46 pm (UTC)And I meant use his interest in gaining power to have him learn new spells that are beneficial, instead of harmful. If he's capable of it.
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Date: 2015-02-02 08:05 pm (UTC)I think that's definitely a possible step, but not one he's ready for. It's a good idea and it helps, even if it's one I can't enact right away, so thank you. [There's a tilt of her head and awkwardly,] Ummm, what's your name again? I'm Kira.
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Date: 2015-02-02 08:37 pm (UTC)Kyle Blackson. Well met, Kira.
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Date: 2015-02-02 10:08 pm (UTC)Thank you for suggesting stuff, Kyle. It's been really helpful!
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Date: 2015-02-02 10:11 pm (UTC)And sure, sorry it's not so relevant for the time being. I'm still kind of new at this. As in, today new at this.
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